I Love Your Smile :)

The first few things I notice about someone are their eyes, their smile, and their body language. You can tell so much about a person from these few things just when you see them for the first time, then as you start to get close to them, those three things can tell you everything about a person.

Body language is an obvious give away to how someone feels in a crowd, unless they're a master at hiding how they feel. I don't really feel like talking too much about this, so we'll go to my second favorite. Eyes.

You can tell what kind of personality has with these things. Do they have the whole smeyes (smile with your eyes) thing going for them? Or are their eyes dreary? I mean color and all that is wonderful but its beyond true when people say that eyes are window to the soul because they might change with your expression but their is something in the eyes that always stays the same and it reflects your life. I'm told that I have joyful eyes, always happy and hopeful even when I'm upset, and I hope that's true! But I know someone who can make jokes and smile but all I see in their eyes is apathy, and its true, they're very apathetic.

Now onto my favorite. Smiles beat eyes by a nose, and the decision wasn't for sure until today.

First of all I want to define what sexy means to me. Sexy to me is confidence. If you've ever read the book Totally God's (yes I'm aware of how cheesey it sounds) then you know that there is a whole chapter about being sexy. It means being confident, loving who you are, and not being afraid to shine.

I think people have sexy smiles. Good teeth are a part of it sure but I mean you can tell how confident someone is by their smile. If they smile with their lips together and their cheeks slightly raised, they probably don't feel too confident, and I can say this because when I'm not feeling up to shine I don't give my smile.  My smile is huge, kind of like a little kid and cartoon mixed. I have a single dimple on the right side of my face and my teeth love to show themselves off, even though they aren't super straight.

But, ummm, anyways... Smiles. They can tell you how a person is feeling and how they are doing, what they're thinking. 

Here I am... Ranting to myself I suppose. Why? Because I saw some beautiful smiles, and I realize that my favorite was brought about by me. And that makes me smile.

So hey, Might As Well smile sexy. :)

Forrealz :)

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Goodbye

Friendship is something quite amazing. I mean, I don't understand how someone could be in your life for so long, and then goodbye steps in and you have to wish them farewell. You have to leave them with things unspoken, unheard, undone, and the story of your friendship feels unfinished.

You wonder if you could have fixed it. You ponder if its too broken to ever be fixed. Perhaps you overreacted. Maybe they were fake all along. What was real? How did the end go down? Nothing is really clear, and if you cared for them as much as you thought then you hope with all that's within you that someday it will all come back to you.

The silence between you two is louder than any argument could ever be. Their eyes avoiding your when you're near each other is like putting salt on an open wound because you remember when eye contact used to be code for some ridiculous inside joke.

You know that you're both different people now. Time has taken affect and growing up has had it's way and you've grown apart. All the plans you used to make together will never come through. But this is where you put all these thoughts and reverse and ask yourself, am I okay?
Do it. Ask yourself.

I did. Because I realize that some people are forever and others are only meant to be in your life for a short time. Losing people happens, it hurts, but can you move on? If your life although now lacking someone who used to be essential, can still continue, then I promise someday it'll all work out.

Maybe things will never be the same. Maybe I'll never have her to laugh with me again, maybe he'll never be there to answer my late night calls, but I have to go on, just like they have. I have to, because at some point in what used to be our friendship they would have wanted me to rid myself of anything or anyone holding me back.

It's over. It wasn't fixable. But it doesn't have to end on bad terms. I sure don't want it to.
Maybe that chapter is over, but hey might as well see how the rest of the story roles out.

You Had to See This Coming.

I tried to avoid it...
But I'm a teenage girl...
Its a sad day in my blogging career.
Its my first blog about boys...
DUN DUN DUN!!!!!
Cue the evil music and lightning...

Boys, boys, boy... This might turn into a book. Well, the other day someone asked me why I don't date, and I mean they got kind of mad at my answer. It went like this:

"Stephany, why aren't you dating anyone?"

"Because I'm fifteen."

You probably want to stop reading this now, but I'm not going to preach about not dating, I'm just saying, that's why I'm writing this. But anyways... BOYS!

Tall ones, small one, short ones, big ones, funny, mean, sweet, awkward. Boys. Lots of awesome and I'm not dating a single one. Because I'm picky. Really truly I am. I have a list. A oddly specific list, and I mean its pretty ridiculous. And I know some amazing dudes out there. But I want to stick to that list, call me crazy if you'd like but I want to stick to that list. I don't want to waste time in a relationship if I'm not a peace with it 100%. Because I mean as far as guys go I've had good experiences, I have no reason to hate the male gender. So why would I risk my heart on something that I don't have confidence in?

Here's what I don't get about guys, no offence to any of them reading, but why do so many of them want girls to settle?  Because they say "hey we want to be good for you" but a lot of them don't want to change to be what's good for a girl and if they think that they can't become it they give up and expect girls to settle? And girls get disheartened and they just do. Again, I don't hate dudes! This is just what I've observed. And I don't get it. Girls, Why do we settle when we know the right guy is out there? If we're suppose to encourage a guy to be his best, why do we let him not try? And guys, why do you get mad when we push you to be your best? Girls push when they know. 

I guess I just don't get it. But I mean, I'm fifteen and I'm in no hurry to find out. I'll date when I'm ready, if that happens. All I really know about guys is one day I'm going to fall in love with one, and I'll go from there. 

So hey, might as well live life and find out how boys work :)

P.S. Sorry, this really has no point.