Wednesday, May 4, 2011

You Had to See This Coming.

I tried to avoid it...
But I'm a teenage girl...
Its a sad day in my blogging career.
Its my first blog about boys...
DUN DUN DUN!!!!!
Cue the evil music and lightning...

Boys, boys, boy... This might turn into a book. Well, the other day someone asked me why I don't date, and I mean they got kind of mad at my answer. It went like this:
"Stephany, why aren't you dating anyone?"
"Because I'm fifteen."
You probably want to stop reading this now, but I'm not going to preach about not dating, I'm just saying, that's why I'm writing this. But anyways... BOYS!

Tall ones, small one, short ones, big ones, funny, mean, sweet, awkward. Boys. Lots of awesome and I'm not dating a single one. Because I'm picky. Really truly I am. I have a list. A oddly specific list, and I mean its pretty ridiculous. And I know some amazing dudes out there. But I want to stick to that list, call me crazy if you'd like but I want to stick to that list. I don't want to waste time in a relationship if I'm not a peace with it 100%. Because I mean as far as guys go I've had good experiences, I have no reason to hate the male gender. So why would I risk my heart on something that I don't have confidence in?

Here's what I don't get about guys, no offence to any of them reading, but why do so many of them want girls to settle?  Because they say "hey we want to be good for you" but a lot of them don't want to change to be what's good for a girl and if they think that they can't become it they give up and expect girls to settle? And girls get disheartened and they just do. Again, I don't hate dudes! This is just what I've observed. And I don't get it. Girls, Why do we settle when we know the right guy is out there? If we're suppose to encourage a guy to be his best, why do we let him not try? And guys, why do you get mad when we push you to be your best? Girls push when they know. 

I guess I just don't get it. But I mean, I'm fifteen and I'm in no hurry to find out. I'll date when I'm ready, if that happens. All I really know about guys is one day I'm going to fall in love with one, and I'll go from there. 

So hey, might as well live life and find out how boys work :)

P.S. Sorry, this really has no point.

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